I remember being in love with a lot of men and I also remember having a broken heart so many times that it made me realize many things that wasn't right about me and the person i am dating... What wasnt right about me? Well many people would describe me as the most naive and nice, carring and loving person... Some use to say that "the meanest I could get is as mean as a babe" which is true. Showing to the man that I was a harmless person really came and bite me back because they know nothing but to take the full adventage of my kindness.Some were just blind not to noticed how much I really loved them. I forgive them. Sleeping with a man soon isn't going to make him love or like you. Its not because you guys had sex that mean you are garanteed to have a successful relationship in the future because you don't even know if he likes you or not! And not having sex is a way for him to skip away from you...You guys should communicate with each other and find a way to break through one another to get to know your partner... Now that doesn't mean that you have to be the " Mrs or Mr I KNOW EVERYTHING " every timethe other try to express him\herself. Like I said in one of my previous article, you will have a misunderstanding and if it is not well solved it can lead you to major decisions like getting a divorce... The most important thing the we women tend to forget when we slepp with a man is to know who they are and what they really want out you. If what they say about them is true or not. Now that doesn't mean that you have to be inspector Gadget and investigate everytime a word come out of him. Let him breathe! But if you are interested in having a more serious relationship with him try to do that in the first couple of weeks and just make an intervention only when you have no other options but to do so... So my point is know who you are dealing with before you get hurt. Another way to know if your love is true or not is to notice if his hands are almost everywhere on you body most of the time... If so it means that your relationship won't go any further than this because it is getting too physical...Save yourself some teeres and run away. Now because I had many unsuccessful relationship it doesn't mean that i am not on the market trust me I never give up...I myself dont really have a problem geting a man but I only have a problem finding one that is not stupid .. I should say had. I have lots of patience and If you do I can tell you that the right one is not far away from you... Keep waiting!

What I like about a man is his eyes, his body, his smell ( I hate men that stink!!!! ), his hair... My man must be a great kisser! He must know how to seduce me and how to take care of me in order for me to do the same as well. I love kisses Dah all women do! Idiot in a fun way. Smart in a fun way ( not a geek thanks!)...